A bit of venting...

When I left New York, I was very upset, I was leaving all my friends, and my family and my much loved cats behind. The people I worked with on a daily basis I missed and cried over. My true friends I tried to not look into their eyes or I would have been bawling upon our goodbyes. Over the past 2 months tomorrow, I have noticed only 2 of my friends have made any kind of effort to make and keep contact, one has made a half attempt which fails miserably with today's technology. While at work I can keep Facebook open, I just don't have time to start conversations as I am working. I can, when messaged respond and have a conversation, but not many have taken the step to say "hey". It kinda hurts, especially when these same people tell other people how much they miss me. Really? You miss me? What kind of effort are you making to contact me? People who don't work expect me to contact them on my Saturday morning? I work five days a week, 9-5 and I am technically a newlywed and the two of us are still in that phase, plus Friday nights we like going out, to go bowling, out to eat, play some pool and go out for drinks or just snuggle in and watch a movie, thereby going to bed way after 1am. We wake up Monday thru Friday at 7, and believe you me, I am so not in the mood to get up that early on my weekend. I miss my friends, I love my husband but sometimes you need that female friend, the ones that know what you like, the ones that find the odd things funny as you do. I miss that. Most of all, I miss my daily or semi-daily chats with Barbara and Laura.